My apologies for being gone for too long for my blog. I let my “Ugly Duckling” house and life get in the way for taking time for this. Our house continues to become our home more and more every day and my boys are excited already about decorating for Halloween and Christmas and have already…

Have your ever read “The Four Agreements” by Don Minguel Ruiz? If not I highly recommend you do. The Four Agreements are 1.Be Impeccable With Your Word 2. Don’t Take Anything Personally 3. Don’t Make Assumptions 4. Always Do Your Best. These sounds simple enough but it is amazing how many people do not live…

Sorry!! I have been MIA for way too long!! Sometimes life throws you curves you don’t see coming and you just have to roll with them and see where they take you. My latest has actually been a wonderful and also crazy, scary and fabulous one! I moved with my boys into a new home!…

At times we get so caught up in the pain, the anger, the hurt and the wondering why that we start to lose ourselves again. We have lost ourselves once by being taken over, controlled and for some verbally and emotionally abused for never being enough, never being that 10x, never being where the grass…

At times we get so caught up in the pain, the hurt and the wondering “why” that we start to lose ourselves again. We have lost ourselves once by being taken over, controlled and often verbally and emotionally abused for never being enough, never being that 10x, never being where the grass is green enough…

Have you ever felt trapped in your relationship? You wanted to find your way out but didn’t know how or what it would mean for you? Have you wanted it to change back to what it once was? Go back to that magic time where everything was “prefect” and life and your marriage/relationship seemed to…

The last post was about no longer having tears for him/her/them. When the storm of your marriage being destroyed pasts, and not to make light of the hurricanes that just hit the US and all of the islands, it felt like my life had been hit the same way. All I had worked for, made…

I had a meeting with the ex about the schedule with the boys for next year and he brought her and their brand-new baby to the meeting. We discussed things and then he said I found out you were writing a blog and let’s just say he didn’t seem happy about it and that it…

One of the hardest parts of divorce when it was not a two way decision is getting over the feeling that it was your fault that you should have or could have done more to save your marriage, to make it all perfect again and live happily ever after. One of many lessons I have…

The amount of pain, self-guilt and tears I shed when I found out about the ex was having an affair and the abuse I felt because of it in my heart and soul was far worse than anything I could have ever imagined. The way they hurt me by their actions and words is beyond…